How to Talk Your Girlfriend Into a Threesome ( Part 1)

18 Nov

If you’ve ever wondered about ways to convince your spouse, wife or girlfriend to have a threesome, you’ve probably spent a lot of time fantasizing about the experience. Judging by the fact that you are here, that fantasy still remains in dreamland. Well we’re going to change that with my “ how to ask for a threesome” guide!

1) Make sure it’s the right time and place


Timing is everything. As our first rule, this is the most sacred. Any request, especially one that involves fucking another woman, will be automatically shot down if proposed at the wrong time. Setting is only second to timing. Lets go over some examples:
NO: During sex.
YES: During sex, while talking about wild fantasies.
NO: During a burlesque show, after she comments how sleazy the girls are.
YES: During a burlesque show, after she comments how sexy the girls are.
NO: After she mentions her friend is a boyfriend stealing slut, in the car.
YES: After she mentions she made out with her friend in college, in her room.
The best time to ask for a threesome is when your girl is feeling playful and kinky, perhaps after she’s asked you to be honest and open.
PROTIP: Get your girlfriend or wife to reveal some hot fantasies of her own that she’d like to try, and then ask her. You never know, she might be secretly craving a threeway herself!
WARNING: Never ask your girlfriend in public or in front of another man if she’d like to do a three way with you and a girl. It’s strongly advised to NOT ask her in front of her gal pals. There may be some exceptions, BUT that is for a more advanced guide!

" Hey hun, wanna invite a friend over after this and fuck like bunnies?"

2) Watch what you say


Mean what you say, and say it like you mean it. Phrasing is an important part of convincing your girlfriend to participate in a threesome. You need to remember that girls are possessive, and insecure when they become attached and your request will directly confront these two instincts. Women want to be wanted. Everyone wants to be wanted. And no one wants to hear their partner wants someone else, more. So be sure to reassure your partner that it is not about them not being enough, but that its about a new experience for both of you. Have a game-plan for what you want to say, you can’t predict a conversation but you can have a strategy in place!
PROTIP: Always let your girl know how beautiful and attractive you find her, compliment her, but watch out! Overt flattery may have the exact opposite effect you are looking for!
WARNING: Never admit you think another woman is hotter than your partner, especially NOT the girl you are looking to invite into your threeway. Honesty is always a great policy, but some things are better left unsaid!

One wrong word and your threesome dreams will take a nose dive!

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  1. How to Talk Your Girlfriend Into a Threesome ( Part 2) « theSHAMELESSharlot : Sex for Your Mind - November 25, 2010

    […] Every guy dreams about a threesome.  Today we’ll continue last week’s guide “ How to Talk Your Girlfriend Into a Threesome”. Part two of this guide will cover the last two steps in convincing your partner, girlfriend or wife into having the wild threeway you’ve always wanted. If you haven’t done so already, check out  “How to Talk Your Girlfriend Into a Threesome (Part 1)” ! […]

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